As some of you may have already heard or read, my dad is dying. He wasn't feeling good, lost some weight, went to doctors, and found out he has stage 4 Liver Cancer. I lost my mom in Oct. 2015. I did not expect my dad to leave me so soon after we went through all we did with my mom, but... as my dad says, "We All Die Kiddo." I have been a wreck. Wendell has been my rock, but he too, is losing his beloved father-in-law and is hurting.
This man is not my bio-dad, but he's my DAD. He's raised me since I was 8 years old. He did not have to, he CHOSE to. I am not sure if this makes it easier or harder but it sure hurts like hell either way. I take care of dying people for a living but this is different because it is my parent. I'm on the "other side" again. ANd it sucks. 🙁
We just ask for prayers, patience, and good thoughts as we go through this yet again.
Thank you guys for being there for us. We truly appreciate it more than words can ever be typed. Once I get my bearings back on track, look out as I'll be back running contests, mailing out goodies, and cracking my whip around here. 😎
Love Angel :innocent:
PS: Here's a pic of happier times...Crater Lake during the summertime, 12 feet of snow, 85å¼ out. :blush:
Angel, I am so sorry that this is happening right now. I know it is hard. But remember this: we all love you and Wendell and those of us that pray, will be praying for you both. We will pray that you have the strength to endure this. HE is my Rock. I would not be here today if I did not have Him. He will be with you in the coming days and months. Just keep us in the loop so we can support you in this. You are not supposed to do this by yourself. BTW, very neat picture.
I wish none of us would have to endure certain things in life. But long distant prayer to you and yours from Money Penny and me. It's a tough thing to let go of loved ones. May the good Lord be with you all with His comfort.
Sorry to hear, I lost my Dad in January to liver cancer and I know it just plain SUCKS. Prayers for your comfort!!
Yes, it sucks. Sometimes I feel that I was very lucky because both of my parents went quickly. One within 24 hours and one within nine days.
We all wish you and your dad the best possible circumstances in this situation. We will be thinking of you frequently.
Lotta' Love and Prayers for you and family, Angel.
Dear God,
We know you made the earth, sky, water, and all that is. We know that for you death is not a problem. But it sure is for us. Please visit us all tonite, and make us to feel your presence, hear your voice, and know you are there.
In Jesus name we pray,
Amen
Prayers sent.
Sorry to hear about your dad's passing. It seems to be going around: my dad died on New Year's Eve, his brother a week later, and my wife's mom last Saturday. I haven't worn a suit so much since I bought one to visit potential clients after starting in business 24 years ago.
sending strength and support.
Thanks, guys...I think I am still in shock. My heart is breaking!!! :broken_heart:
But...I talked to my dad today for a little bit...he sounds SO tired. But he was glad I called. :innocent:
One day at a time....:coffee:
Angel, post: 419619, member: 100 wrote: Thanks, guys...I think I am still in shock. My heart is breaking!!! :broken_heart:
But...I talked to my dad today for a little bit...he sounds SO tired. But he was glad I called. :innocent:
One day at a time....:coffee:
Angel - you are truly living up to your name. Don't give up. You are in my prayers.
Ken
Prayers are being sent for your Dad and for you. My father will soon be 90. I'm headed down to visit with him for a few days. I never know when this visit may be my last. Don't dwell on the loss, just recall all the good times.
Andy
Sorry to hear that Angel. I wish I could understand your feelings but I canÛªt. My Father died when I was 13. We didnÛªt have any relationship whatsoever as I was apparently looked upon as an unnecessary evil. As callous as it may seem I did not shed one single tear when he passed. And I do not regret it at all.
You are a ÛÏToughieÛ and although the road ahead is going to be rough, you will come through, you always do, and I wish you and Wendell the best during this journey.
Positive thoughts to you both! :heart:
Angel take time to take care of yourself. You nailed it with "one day at a time". Prayers and thought to you guys.
Oh, Angel.
You and Wendell are in my prayers. I know what you are going through, lost both of my parents 7 months apart a couple of years ago, still feel the grief at times like this.
Thoughts and prayers... lost my dad to pancreatic cancer a few years ago. Take comfort in all the good years you have had with him.
Sorry to hear about your
Dad. It appears that you have had one wave after another of family crisis.
We all pray and wish you and your family the strength and love and peace of mind
Trust me, you are far from alone Angel. My significant other has been going through the same thing. Her Mom is 3000 miles away and going through treatment for pancreatic cancer. My sweetie has been away from me for the last 4 months taking care of her and it's been a very long winter. I lost both my parents much too long ago. Hang in there. Nothing in this world is permanent and tomorrow is a new day and beginning.
