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Starting in 1970 this was probably the most commonly played song at weddings.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/We%27ve_Only_Just_Begun

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That same year The Carpenters also put out this jewel:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Close_to_You_(The_Carpenters_album)

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It was very close to this date in 1970 when I met the 14 year-old girl that would become the mother of my three daughters.?ÿ It was precisely 51 years ago today when we stood in front of the preacher and said "I do".?ÿ It was a bit less than 14 years later when we met with a judge and said "I don't".?ÿ We are still on good terms, although we only see each other a few times per year at family gatherings and such.?ÿ Damn, she has grown old. ???? ?ÿ I haven't changed a bit.?ÿ Looking like Santa Claus at 16 was a bit rough on me, I must admit. ???œ?ÿ

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Posted : July 24, 2022 8:39 am
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The Wedding Song (There is Love) by Paul Stookey was the number one song at weddings in the 1970s. An Episcopalian clergyman I knew told how sick he was of hearing it, for Gawdƒ??s sakes pick something else.

I married my first wife almost 39 years ago. We are still married.

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 8:53 am
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@dave-karoly?ÿ

You may find this odd but I have heard this song at funerals and other church related occasions more than at weddings.?ÿ It is a beautiful song by Peter of Peter, Paul and Mary fame.?ÿ Note in the opening frame of this link that he wrote and performed this for the first time on July 23, 1971, the day before my first wedding.?ÿ If we had any music at that wedding, I have not a clue what it would have been other than Here Comes the Bride.?ÿ It only took eight minutes to get married in that simple ceremony.?ÿ Years later our time with the judge to officially dissolve the union took approximately eight minutes as we had everything worked out in advance, including my having primary custody and her paying child support, while I took on all of our existing debts.

We had no music at my second wedding as we were out in the middle of the college campus we had both attended, with a justice of the peace saying the magic words.?ÿ We had no permission to use the site we chose.?ÿ We just gathered, said all the right words and departed.?ÿ No fuss, no muss.

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 11:42 am
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Tim Hawkins - Inappropriate Wedding Songs - YouTube

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 2:16 pm
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For those who clearly (sort of) remember 1970.

This is a list of?ÿBillboard?ÿmagazine's Top?ÿHot 100?ÿsongs of the year 1970.[1]?ÿIt covers from January 3 to November 28, 1970.[2]

No. Title Artist(s)
1 "Bridge Over Troubled Water" Simon & Garfunkel
2 "(They Long to Be) Close to You" The Carpenters
3 "American Woman" The Guess Who
4 "Raindrops Keep Fallin' on My Head" B.J. Thomas
5 "War" Edwin Starr
6 "Ain't No Mountain High Enough" Diana Ross
7 "I'll Be There" The Jackson 5
8 "Get Ready" Rare Earth
9 "Let It Be" The Beatles
10 "Band of Gold" Freda Payne
11 "Mama Told Me (Not to Come)" Three Dog Night
12 "Everything Is Beautiful" Ray Stevens
13 "Make It with You" Bread
14 "Hitchin' a Ride" Vanity Fare
15 "ABC" The Jackson 5
16 "The Love You Save" The Jackson 5
17 "Cracklin' Rosie" Neil Diamond
18 "Candida" Dawn
19 "Thank You (Falettinme Be Mice Elf Agin)" Sly & the Family Stone
20 "Spill the Wine" Eric Burdon?ÿ&?ÿWar
21 "O-o-h Child" Five Stairsteps
22 "Spirit in the Sky" Norman Greenbaum
23 "Lay Down (Candles in the Rain)" Melanie
24 "Ball of Confusion (That's What the World Is Today)" The Temptations
25 "Love on a Two-Way Street" The Moments
26 "Which Way You Goin' Billy?" The Poppy Family
27 "All Right Now" Free
28 "I Want You Back" The Jackson 5
29 "Julie, Do Ya Love Me" Bobby Sherman
30 "Green-Eyed Lady" Sugarloaf
31 "Signed, Sealed, Delivered I'm Yours" Stevie Wonder
32 "Ride Captain Ride" Blues Image
33 "Venus" Shocking Blue
34 "Instant Karma!" John Lennon
35 "Patches" Clarence Carter
36 "Lookin' out My Back Door" Creedence Clearwater Revival
37 "Rainy Night in Georgia" Brook Benton
38 "Something's Burning" Kenny Rogers?ÿ&?ÿThe First Edition
39 "Give Me Just a Little More Time" Chairmen of the Board
40 "Love Grows (Where My Rosemary Goes)" Edison Lighthouse
41 "The Long and Winding Road" The Beatles
42 "Snowbird" Anne Murray
43 "Reflections of My Life" Marmalade
44 "Hey There Lonely Girl" Eddie Holman
45 "The Rapper" The Jaggerz
46 "He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother" The Hollies
47 "Tighter, Tighter" Alive N Kickin'
48 "Come and Get It" Badfinger
49 "Cecilia" Simon & Garfunkel
50 "Love Land" Charles Wright & the Watts 103rd Street Rhythm Band
51 "Turn Back the Hands of Time" Tyrone Davis
52 "Lola" The Kinks
53 "In the Summertime" Mungo Jerry
54 "Indiana Wants Me" R. Dean Taylor
55 "(I Know) I'm Losing You" Rare Earth
56 "Easy Come, Easy Go" Bobby Sherman
57 "Express Yourself" Charles Wright & the Watts 103rd Street Rhythm Band
58 "Still Water (Love)" The Four Tops
59 "Make Me Smile" Chicago
60 "The House of the Rising Sun" Frijid Pink
61 "25 or 6 to 4" Chicago
62 "My Baby Loves Lovin'" White Plains
63 "Love or Let Me Be Lonely" The Friends of Distinction
64 "United We Stand" The Brotherhood of Man
65 "We've Only Just Begun" The Carpenters
66 "Arizona" Mark Lindsay
67 "Fire and Rain" James Taylor
68 "Groovy Situation" Gene Chandler
69 "Evil Ways" Santana
70 "No Time" The Guess Who
71 "Didn't I (Blow Your Mind This Time)" The Delfonics
72 "The Wonder of You" Elvis Presley
73 "Up Around the Bend" Creedence Clearwater Revival
74 "(If You Let Me Make Love To You Then) Why Can't I Touch You?" Ronnie Dyson
75 "I Just Can't Help Believing" B.J. Thomas
76 "It's a Shame" The Spinners
77 "For the Love of Him" Bobbi Martin
78 "Mississippi Queen" Mountain
79 "I Want to Take You Higher" Ike & Tina Turner
80 "The Letter" Joe Cocker
81 "Ma Belle Amie" Tee-Set
82 "The Bells" The Originals
83 "Yellow River" Christie
84 "Somebody's Been Sleeping" 100 Proof (Aged in Soul)
85 "Vehicle" The Ides of March
86 "Gimme Dat Ding" The Pipkins
87 "Lay a Little Lovin' on Me" Robin McNamara
88 "Up the Ladder to the Roof" The Supremes
89 "Travelin' Band" Creedence Clearwater Revival
90 "Come Saturday Morning" The Sandpipers
91 "Psychedelic Shack" The Temptations
92 "Without Love (There Is Nothing)" Tom Jones
93 "Are You Ready?" Pacific Gas & Electric
94 "Woodstock" Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young
95 "I'll Never Fall in Love Again" Dionne Warwick
96 "Look What They've Done to My Song Ma" The New Seekers
97 "Walk A Mile In My Shoes" Joe South
98 "The Thrill Is Gone" B.B. King
99 "It's Only Make Believe" Glen Campbell
100 "Call Me" Aretha Franklin
 
Posted : July 24, 2022 2:27 pm
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@holy-cow no self respecting Episcopalian would process to the Wedding March.

Clarkeƒ??s Trumpet Voluntary is usually preferredƒ??

Purcellƒ??s Trumpet Tune & Air is often used for the recessional.

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 2:31 pm
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My uncle married three times.?ÿ Outlived them all.?ÿ His first wedding was in 1936 to my mother's sister who died in 1964.?ÿ His second wedding was in 1965 (he was her fourth husband, the other three had died).?ÿ His third wedding was in 1998 when he was 82 years old.?ÿ Can you imagine the differences in the popular songs that might have been played at each wedding?

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 2:37 pm
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@holy-cow my Uncle was married 4 times.

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Posted : July 24, 2022 2:39 pm
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I dated a gal that had already been married four times.?ÿ She eventually found number five.?ÿ He died about six months ago, so I suppose she's looking for number six right now.

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 2:44 pm
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Posted by: @holy-cow

?ÿso I suppose she's looking for number six right now.

Ummm....., how much money does she have, and can she cook? ?????ÿ

(if she is super rich, disregard the cooking part)

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 4:08 pm
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@holy-cow

old time favorite of mine......

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 4:17 pm
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Very fine cook.?ÿ Only rich if her last husband left her that way.?ÿ None of the others did.

The standard joke was that she had daily sex for 15 years.?ÿ Husband #3 had the surname Daly, pronounced daily.?ÿ Husband #2 had the best name but he died far too young in a highway accident that he didn't cause.?ÿ His surname was Hereford.

 
Posted : July 24, 2022 6:21 pm
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Posted by: @holy-cow

...I haven't changed a bit.?ÿ Looking like Santa Claus at 16 was a bit rough on me, I must admit.

Just for fun I googled "Santa Claus at 16" and came up with this image:

santa claus at 16

I guess his beard turned white later in his life..

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Posted : July 24, 2022 8:13 pm
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That would be more like 18.?ÿ A light purple shirt and white tie.?ÿ The reddish-blonde mustache was quite the contrast to the dark hair elsewhere.?ÿ Appears to be Wanted Poster material.?ÿ I was far too poor to buy the book in which that photo appeared.

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Posted : July 24, 2022 9:48 pm
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@flga-2-2?ÿ

She'll wanna know how much insurance you have.

 
Posted : July 25, 2022 3:23 am
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@mathteacher?ÿ

and if you have any heirs

 
Posted : July 25, 2022 6:18 am
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I guess his beard turned white later in his life..

Unc, that pic looks like Ted Bundy's pic at the Post Office around the same time....... ?????ÿ

 
Posted : July 25, 2022 4:43 pm
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Posted by: @holy-cow

Starting in 1970 this was probably the most commonly played song at weddings.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/We%27ve_Only_Just_Begun

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Awww man.... ƒ?§ƒ?§ƒ?§ Sniffles ƒ?§ƒ?§ƒ?§

You have me in tears over here.?ÿ
You would never have known this, but... this was the song my mom dedicated to me when I was born. It was just her and I and that's how she felt about it..."We've Only Just Begun". I can still feel her in my heart, singing it to me. ???¬
After she died, I spent 6 weeks slowly going through her stuff. I found her original 45 of this song in her record collection! It now sits in my glass cabinet. (Pic attached!)

I miss my parents so much... Dads birthday was on Monday. Today I have been daydreaming about the good ol' times with my parents, wondering if they have any idea how much I love and miss them????ÿ
Then I go about my day, hop online, and come and check in. I see this post. There's my sign from my mom. ƒ?

Carpenters
 
Posted : July 29, 2022 10:14 am
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Dang.?ÿ I'm sorry, Angel.?ÿ But, it's a good sorry in your case.

 
Posted : July 30, 2022 6:38 pm
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@noodles wow! ?ÿNeat-o.

L O V E

 
Posted : July 31, 2022 6:14 am